“Transformative online coaching to wake up to the illusion of life.”

Having it all together and looking like you have it all together are two very different things.

Underneath, your anxiety, fears and worries keep you awake, wondering how long you’re going to suffer living a life that feels like you’re on the outside looking in.

You want out.

The career you wanted now makes you want to run away and never look back.

The relationship that once made you so happy now pushes you closer-and-closer to addiction.

Even if it’s just to Facebook.

The disconnection between who you are and who you want to be has gaped so far open that you can’t imagine ever making your dreams come true again.

But I’m here to tell you that it’s all a lie.

You absolutely can have your dreams back.

You absolutely can live the life that makes you pop out of bed in the morning, raring to see what the day will bring again.

You absolutely can find love, live your purpose and build a life you would love to live.


Hi, I’m Gary and I help midlife professionals transform themselves and their lives.

I’ve spent a lifetime trying to transform myself, overcome my fears and anxieties and find inner peace.

I suffered loss as a child and that left me feeling stuck, like I was a fraud, and that I was undeserving of love and happiness.

And although it looked good on the surface - successful job, relationship and money - inside I was a mess.

I was disconnected from my family, felt empty inside and didn’t feel like I had met my potential in life.

I was often angry and irritable for little reason, and used to judge myself more than I would judge others.

Even people who had hurt me.

I stayed locked in unhealthy behaviours and unhealthy relationships.

I read every self-help book going, hired coaches, and had long-term therapy but nothing worked.

I still kept making the same mistakes and couldn’t make long-term sustainable change to finally break free from my past.

I’d start new behaviours only to stop within a couple of weeks.

And then I finally turned it all around with a method that requires no techniques, no exercises and no endlessly talking about your past.

I teach you a profound but simple understanding of how you create your experience and everything inside changes.

And then we stay in the conversation as you uncover deep meaningful insights that help you change yourself at a fundamental level.

“At the end of our sessions, I was able to unblock years of unconscious, unhelpful thinking which was really holding me back.” - David A

Wake up to who you really are and what is already inside of you

I don't know why you're here now.

Maybe the relationship you thought was ‘the one’ failed unexpectedly, again for the same reasons as all the others.

Maybe you’ve lost your passion for your career and don’t know what to do with your life anymore.

Maybe you’re in transition, feeling overwhelmed and need support as you take on a new challenge, or change your life circumstances.

Maybe you feel like you are missing out on your dreams and you're just tired of living someone else’s life and now is the time to change.

You are only ever one thought away from peace and clarity

Your Thought is the most powerful tool you process.

Finding inner peace, healing your past, making peace with your emotions, and learning to let go is just one thought from the thought you are having right now.

"Thought is not reality; yet it is through Thought that our realities are created." ~ Sydney Banks

Once you understand the power of Thought you’ll know how to live without undue stress, anxiety and worry.

You’ll understand how to let go of your past, emotional wounds and hurt.

You’ll be able to have more compassion for yourself and others, be able to forgive easily and move through your emotions with ease.

And you’ll start to understand that you are creating your own experience through the power of Thought.

And while it may seem the world is to blame for your problems.

When you see that you’re creating your reality through your thoughts.

Your understanding about how you experience life will change and you’ll fundamentally shift how you are in the world.

And you’ll see that the reality is that you are this unlimited potential of creativity, love and happiness.

You can be the person you genuinely want to be, you can find peace, clarity and the confidence to live life on your terms.

Going beyond performance and life coaching

Coaching can work on different levels. At a simple level, a coach can help you perform better at a task.

Or be better at relationships, be better in business, be a better parent, be a better leader, speaker or presenter.

But on the transformational level, a coach helps you wake up to the reality of life, to how you really experience life, and helps you see through the dream of life and shift your understanding of being in the world.

I would highly recommend having some sessions with Gary - you will be surprised how much you can change your outlook and improve your life in a short period of time with his support.”

Katie A

A whole new way of being in the world

Working at the transformational level means being willing to look deep inside of you.

When we work at the transformational level we connect you to the more profound truth of you.

At the transformational level, a coach helps you see your true purpose and connection with all of life.

And it is from this more profound level of understanding that real change starts to happen in your life.

Regardless of what you what to achieve, who you want to be, or what you want to change.

Then my unique approach will help you gain clarity, inner peace and fulfilment in life.

"What stood out was that in a sea of wannabe practitioners and teachers of "skills" and "practices" in this space, this is the real deal: Focused, intelligent, exploratory, tolerant and wise, I'd recommend Gary's very human, humane, and practical approach to anyone."

Neil Fleming

Benefits of my coaching

  • Live without stress and anxiety

  • Improve your relationships

  • Enhance clarity, productivity and creativity

  • Feel more joy, peace and well-being

  • Be able to face change and challenge with resilience and clarity

  • Enjoy your life

  • Uncover your true potential